Being confidently potty trained means they have achieved a significant level of independence and reliability in managing their toileting needs. Here’s a breakdown of what that typically looks like:

• Most Importantly – Independent Toileting Routine: They can manage the entire process themselves, including:

  • Pulling down their pants and underwear.

  • Sitting on the toilet or potty independently.

  • Urinating and having bowel movements without assistance.

  • Wiping themselves effectively (though they may still need reminders or a quick check).

  • Flushing the toilet.

  • Pulling up their pants and underwear.

  • Washing and drying their hands thoroughly.

• Consistent Dryness: They stay dry for extended periods during the day (at least 2-3 hours) and usually during naps. Accidents are rare.

• Independent Recognition of Urge: They can recognize the physical sensations that indicate they need to use the toilet (both for pee and poop) and communicate this need clearly and in time.

• Using Various Toilets: They are comfortable using toilets in different environments (home, school, public restrooms) without significant anxiety or resistance.

• Rare Accidents: Accidents are infrequent and usually occur due to unusual circumstances (e.g., being very engrossed in play, feeling unwell, or being in an unfamiliar situation where a toilet isn’t readily accessible).

• Verbal Communication: They can clearly tell an adult if they need help with any part of the process.

No Reliance on Diapers/Pull-ups During the Day: They consistently wear underwear during the day and don’t need the security of a diaper or pull-up.